A Mexican woman married to a Cuban shared on TikTok the things she dislikes about Cubans, sparking a wave of reactions within the social media community. The protagonist of this viral video is Osmara, who lives in Houston with her husband. She began the video saying, "I’ve always spoken well of Cubans, but this time I’m going to talk about things I don’t like about them. I raise my voice to speak, but they have a built-in loudspeaker at level three. If I shout, they outdo me. They don't talk, they shout. It seems like they are arguing. I can’t tell when they’re speaking normally or when they’re fighting."
Weekly Gatherings and Honest Remarks
Another issue Osmara mentioned is the weekly gatherings. "They want to get together every weekend at someone’s house. At all these gatherings, they want to eat the same thing. They have no shame in telling you that you're bald, fat, skinny, or things like that, but they do feel embarrassed to say they can't go or didn’t like a comment," Osmara added.
Many Cubans resonated with the customs highlighted by this Mexican woman. Comments on her TikTok video included, "Everything you said isn’t bad, it’s just how we are, so different but so natural," "You’re almost ready to pass the citizenship test," "You spoke well of us this time too, hahaha, you even say 'ñooo' like a Cuban," "The first time I met them, I got a headache. I was dating one, and he took me to a gathering. The shouting gave me a headache, but I still married him," and "Oh, this girl loves us. She has studied us. And I still haven't met Cubans who are embarrassed to say 'No,' we even have a language for that," along with "How wonderful it is to visit and spend time with friends and family on weekends."
Understanding Cuban Social Customs
In this section, we address some common questions about Cuban social customs and how they might differ from other cultures, especially from the perspective of someone from Mexico.
Why do Cubans speak so loudly?
Cubans are known for their expressive communication style, which can often seem loud to others. This is a cultural trait and is not necessarily indicative of anger or argument.
What are some typical foods at Cuban gatherings?
Cuban gatherings often feature traditional dishes such as roast pork, rice and beans, plantains, and yucca. The emphasis is on hearty, flavorful meals that everyone enjoys.
How do Cubans handle honesty in social interactions?
Cubans are generally very direct and honest in their social interactions. While this can come off as blunt, it is a sign of their straightforward nature and close-knit community values.