A video on TikTok has captured the attention of millions, showcasing the heartfelt words of a father who unconditionally supports his lesbian daughter. Posted on the girl’s profile (@mrgirlkisser) this past Father’s Day and during Pride Month, the video has garnered over 3.4 million views, more than 320,000 likes, and 5,600 comments as of this writing.
The story began when a follower asked how the young woman’s father would react, after her mother had shown support in another video. In response, the father shared a series of affirmations expressing his pride and love for his daughter, challenging stereotypes and celebrating their relationship: “I’m the dad of a lesbian, and obviously, she steals my clothes. I’m the dad of a lesbian, and obviously, I’ve been told I won’t be a grandfather. I’m the dad of a lesbian, and obviously, I give her advice on picking up girls. I’m the dad of a lesbian, and obviously, I’m at peace because there won’t be any men in her life. I’m the dad of a lesbian, and obviously, I’ve been told I have a son, ask me about it,” he’s heard saying in the video, which closes with, “I’m the dad of a lesbian, and obviously, she’s still my princess.”
The video has sparked a wave of mostly positive comments on TikTok, with many expressing admiration for the father: “The dad we all want”; “Cheers to more dads like this one. And that phrase, ‘she’ll always be his princess’”; “I congratulate and respect you for being a good father who accepts his daughter as she is. Blessings”; “I find it respectable, a child is a child regardless of their decisions; what matters is each person's happiness. I commend that way of thinking”; “That’s what being a father is about, supporting your children no matter their preferences. Congratulations for being such a good father”; “Your daughter must be very proud of you…”; “It’s great that you support your daughter as you should, I wish there were more fathers like you… I think children should be loved just as they are,” read some of the messages.
While most of the responses celebrated the love and acceptance shown by the father, there were also some criticisms, hateful comments, and discriminatory messages. In response to one comment predicting they would go to hell, they later shared a joint video addressing the criticism and defending the importance of videos like theirs in highlighting parental support for their children, regardless of their personal choices or sexual orientation.
Parental Support for LGBTQ+ Children
In light of this viral TikTok video, many people have questions about parental support for LGBTQ+ children. Here are some frequently asked questions and their answers.
Why is parental support important for LGBTQ+ children?
Parental support is crucial for LGBTQ+ children as it significantly impacts their mental health, self-esteem, and overall well-being. Acceptance and love from parents can help mitigate the negative effects of discrimination and societal stigma.
How can parents show support for their LGBTQ+ children?
Parents can show support by openly accepting and affirming their child’s identity, educating themselves about LGBTQ+ issues, advocating for their child’s rights, and providing a safe and loving environment at home.
What impact can a lack of parental support have on LGBTQ+ children?
A lack of parental support can lead to increased risks of mental health issues, such as depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts. LGBTQ+ children without support may also face higher levels of bullying, discrimination, and social isolation.