A Colombian resident in Miami, known on TikTok as @valentinabuof, has shared her challenges in adjusting to various nationalities she has encountered in the Sunshine City. She revealed that adapting to Cubans was particularly difficult for her.
In her video, Valentina mentions that conversations with people from certain nationalities often feel like they could end in a fight, based on her personal experiences. She specifically highlights the challenge of adapting to Cubans, noting their distinctive way of speaking, characterized by a loud tone. "For me, it's hard to listen to them talk. I feel like they're scolding me, not because of the words but because of their tone," Valentina explains. However, she clarifies that it's not because they are treating her badly; it's simply their way of speaking. She adds that working with Cuban women has helped her get used to this style of communication.
Valentina also mentions her experiences with Dominicans, who also speak with a loud tone and initially were difficult to understand. "After talking with them for 5 minutes, you realize they are cheerful and that's just their way of speaking," she comments, indicating that after a brief period of interaction, one can appreciate the friendly nature of Dominicans.
Lastly, the Colombian mentions Spaniards as another nationality she has had difficulties adjusting to.
The video has sparked hundreds of reactions from people who identified with her words, including Cubans themselves who acknowledge that they are often asked if they are angry because of their tone. The video has received a mix of reactions, ranging from support for her honesty to criticism for stereotyping certain groups. Valentina, however, has defended her statements as an honest description of her personal experiences and not as a negative judgment towards any nationality.
Comments on the video include: "I love interacting with Cubans and Dominicans. They add a unique touch to everything," "I'm Cuban and I speak very loudly. People always think I'm fighting. Even other Cubans, hahaha, some speak softly. Not all of us," "I'm Colombian and my best friends are Cubans. I've had no problem with their language," "I'm Cuban, and initially, it was hard for me to work with Colombians. I thought they were showing off how they spoke. Later, I fell in love with their accent," and "I'm Cuban, and when I lived in Mexico, people always asked if I was angry. I was like, 'No, I'm great, it's just my way of speaking, haha."
Adjusting to Different Nationalities in Miami
Adapting to various cultures and ways of communication can be challenging, as highlighted by Valentina's experiences. Here are some frequently asked questions that delve deeper into the topic:
Why do Cubans speak with a loud tone?
Cubans often speak loudly as a cultural trait. It is not intended to be aggressive; rather, it is a passionate and expressive way of communicating.
How can one adapt to different communication styles?
Adapting to different communication styles involves patience, open-mindedness, and exposure to those cultures. Engaging in conversations and understanding the context of their expressions can help in better adaptation.
Are loud tones common in other Latin American cultures?
Yes, loud tones can be found in other Latin American cultures, such as Dominicans. It often signifies enthusiasm and friendliness rather than anger.
What are the common challenges when adapting to a new culture?
Common challenges include understanding different communication styles, adjusting to new social norms, and overcoming language barriers. Building relationships and immersing oneself in the culture can ease these challenges.