A Cuban mother in the United States couldn't hold back her tears after reading a comment on TikTok advising her not to return to the island, where her children still reside. The user @nathyy.zaldivar.t shared a heartfelt video discussing the tough decision of leaving her children in Cuba while she emigrates in search of a better future for them.
She explains that her primary reason for returning to Cuba is the well-being of her children, despite also having her parents on the island. "We have to go back to Cuba for our children. We have our parents there, but the main reason is them. No one should tell me I shouldn't have left them because we make the sacrifice for them. My kids, one is 5 and the other 10. I've told my children that if they want me to return, I will, and they say, 'Don't come back because if you do, we'll always live the same.' They are waiting for me to bring them. They know what we are going through," she says, emotional.
"No one should call me a bad mother for leaving my children because many of us are in this situation and we make the sacrifice for our children. So that they can grow up and when they have their children, they won't have to separate from them to provide a better future," she adds.
In her words, the mother narrates how she has spoken with her children about the possibility of returning and how they, with maturity, have asked her not to. The video has sparked a wave of comments and reactions on social media, highlighting the bravery and sacrifice of many Cuban parents who face heartbreaking decisions to secure a better future for their children.
This testimony sheds light on the harsh reality of many Cuban families and the strength of those who fight for a better future for their loved ones, even at the cost of painful separations.
Challenges Faced by Cuban Immigrants
This section provides insight into the frequently asked questions about the difficulties and decisions faced by Cuban immigrants, especially those who leave family behind in search of better opportunities.
Why do Cuban parents leave their children behind when emigrating?
Many Cuban parents leave their children behind to seek better economic opportunities and a more secure future for their family. The harsh economic conditions and lack of opportunities in Cuba drive them to make this difficult decision.
How do children in Cuba feel about their parents emigrating?
Children often understand the reasons behind their parents' decisions and show maturity beyond their years. They may encourage their parents to stay abroad to secure a better future for the family, despite the emotional toll of separation.