A Cuban woman residing in the United States has shared her thoughts on the societal pressure exerted by social media, highlighting how the lifestyles portrayed often do not reflect reality. In her viral video, user @sheila_hdzz discusses how these platforms can negatively influence perceptions of success and luxury. She points out that the content consumed on social media often leads to unrealistic expectations. "The truth is, what you see on social media can be harmful," she states in her video, admitting that she sometimes feels that "one good vacation a year seems insufficient" because the social norm appears to be constant travel.
The video creator questions how some individuals manage to afford numerous trips annually and reveals what she believes is the secret behind such lifestyles: credit cards. "The answer is credit cards. The thing is, you don't see it, and neither do I. And they'll never tell you," she says, acknowledging that she might be labeled "jealous" for bringing this reality to light. She insists that many people rely on credit to maintain appearances.
Having studied accounting in Cuba, she asserts that it is not difficult to discern who genuinely lives a luxurious lifestyle and who relies on credit cards. While she clarifies that using credit isn't inherently wrong, she emphasizes the significance of appreciating the ability to afford "one good vacation a year," especially as an immigrant, since "not everyone can do it."
Saving and Financial Realities
Her final advice stresses the importance of saving. Many users agreed with her perspective, while others shared how they manage to travel multiple times a year. Comments alongside the video include: "Finally, someone says it! My husband and I earn well, yet we can't afford it. But we have zero debt," "Absolutely true, but not everyone is the same. My husband and I own a business, have three kids, and we work very hard to afford many trips a year with no debt and owning our home," "I've traveled about eight times this year. Thanks to credit cards, but they're paid off quickly," and "Social media is an alternate reality. It's better to be and not appear than to appear and not be. Some people can indulge, but most cannot."