The content creator @itscarolindaa is stirring conversation on TikTok with her candid video about the hurdles of residing in the United States. Her post, which has already garnered over 15,000 likes, features insights on "things I wish I had known before moving to the U.S.," offering cautionary advice for those contemplating a move to the country.
According to her personal experiences, life in the U.S. can be tougher than many anticipate. She notes that in the country, "you don't have friends or a social life" and that "nobody cares about you." She also highlights the prevalence of loneliness and mistrust, warning of the potential pitfalls of falling into bad habits due to sadness or anxiety. Her advice to others is to focus on activities that promote well-being and to prioritize saving money, as the cost of living is high and "every dollar counts."
Community Reactions and Shared Experiences
The responses from users were swift, with many sharing their own experiences. Some agreed that loneliness and a lack of empathy are global issues: "That's not just the U.S., it's the world; nobody is social anymore"; "Here and everywhere"; "We're the same in the Dominican Republic." Conversely, others defended life in the U.S., emphasizing that with a good job, one can live peacefully and even support family back home: "I love it here; I have peace and money. No gossip or nonsense"; "I'm doing well, I've already bought a house in the DR and here."
Universal Loneliness and Changing World Dynamics
Several users pointed out that the situation is similar in their own countries, asserting that life has become increasingly solitary worldwide. "This happens everywhere; the world has changed, my friend"; "Crisis and loneliness are everywhere, not just in the U.S." Despite differing views, @itscarolindaa's message has sparked a discussion on what emigrating truly entails, with some suggesting that it's an experience only truly understood by living it.