A Latina mother who has chosen to live with her family in a recreational vehicle (RV) in the United States has gone viral on TikTok after eloquently and assertively responding to criticism about her lifestyle choice. Known on the platform as @estefaniapicazo, she shares her life in a compact yet functional space with her husband and child, addressing those who question her decision to raise a family under such conditions.
In the video, someone commented, "Why have kids when you live in such a small place?" To which she calmly and confidently retorted: "Someone left me this question, and I'll answer it as politely as I can. I have children because I want to and can. Since when do we need to ask others for permission to start a family? Both of my babies were desired and planned, and thank God, we have the time, patience, and financial stability to provide them a happy and stable life."
She further explained that the size of their home does not hinder their family's well-being. In fact, living in an RV was a conscious choice made to prioritize family unity: "Yes, our living space is small, but it has everything our family needs. I chose to live in an RV with my husband and child so my baby could see his dad every day, not just every couple of months."
Concluding her message, she urged others to respect different family dynamics: "I'll just say that we need to respect the ways other families live, even if it doesn't make sense to some. Greetings and have a lovely day."
Her response has been widely praised on social media for affirming each family's right to choose the lifestyle that suits them best and reminding others that love and well-being are not dependent on the size of one's home.
Some of the comments she received include:
"Great response, no one has the right to judge others as if they are supporting them."
"Absolutely, my friend, I love your RV, and the best part is you're all together; that's the most beautiful thing."
"Humility above all, I don't understand why people criticize so much. If she can afford her own house, that an RV lacks a living room, dining room, bathroom, bedroom, etc., everything necessary for living."
"I see people criticizing where she lives because it's small. I bet most live in smaller houses than that."
"I see nothing wrong with it. Those mobile homes cost a fortune, and maintaining them even more, so if she has the money to have a child, it's planned. The child has love and the presence of both parents; he will grow up well."
"I don't understand how people can ask such things! Aren't they embarrassed to meddle in someone else's life?"
Understanding RV Living for Families in the USA
Why do some families choose to live in an RV?
Families may choose RV living for various reasons, including financial savings, a desire for mobility and travel, or to prioritize family time by having flexible living arrangements.
What are the benefits of raising children in an RV?
Raising children in an RV can offer benefits such as a closer family bond due to shared space, opportunities for travel and experiencing different environments, and teaching adaptability and simplicity.