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"Despite No Gratitude, I Can't Help It": Cuban Woman Shares Her Experience Bringing Items to Her Acquaintances in Cuba

Wednesday, January 15, 2025 by Ava Castillo

A Cuban woman living abroad took to TikTok to share her experience as she prepares for another trip to the island, where she plans to visit her daughter, thanks to a ticket gifted by her husband. Her post, which has garnered thousands of views, reveals the challenges and lack of appreciation she has faced on previous trips, yet she feels compelled to bring supplies for her acquaintances in Cuba due to the pressing needs they face.

In the video shared on the account @dayanaperez9201, the woman recounts how during her last visit, she carried six bags filled with gifts and essentials for friends and family. However, she expressed disappointment that, after distributing them, many did not appreciate her effort: “In the end, no one was satisfied, and I vowed never to do it again.” Despite this decision, she finds herself repeating the same practice. “I understand the need on the island, and even if they don't express gratitude, I can't resist helping,” she stated.

The post sparked a heated debate among social media users. Some praised her generosity and empathy, while others shared similar experiences, pointing out that the lack of gratitude can be discouraging. “It's hard to say no when you know these items can make a difference for someone in Cuba,” commented one follower. Another advised, “Don't wear yourself out; sometimes you have to think about yourself.”

This account highlights a common situation among Cuban expatriates who, upon returning to the island, feel a moral obligation to bring gifts and essential items for family and friends, despite the personal sacrifices involved.

Common Challenges Faced by Cuban Expatriates

Why do Cuban expatriates feel the need to bring items to the island?

Cuban expatriates often feel a moral obligation to bring items due to the significant needs and shortages faced by people on the island.

How do social media users react to stories of generosity towards Cuba?

Reactions are mixed; while some users applaud the generosity and empathy, others find the lack of gratitude discouraging and suggest focusing on personal well-being.

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